
I saw movie' Oasis'. It is Korean movie. The main actor and actress are very famous in South Korea. Especially, the actress came to SIFF in 2006 ( I guess!!). She was invited during SIFF period and I could see her face to face. She didn't have a beautiful face such as Guiness Paltrrow, but she was very attractive type which I couldn't say.
The movie usually dealt with discrimination and rape. As a result, I was uncomfortable to see this movie at the first time. The story was that a man who was criminal and rejected from his family after released from jail met a woman who named " princess". Their relationship is not normal. Because he hit and run one of her family members. After he release from jail, he visted her family for forgiving.When he arrived her house, nobody was there, except her. She was a disabled person who has a polio. When he saw her, he tried to rape her.At that time, her brother and sister came in and saved her.He was hit by her brother and returned home.Several days later, he kept thinking about her, and she was same with him. They started to their heart and to date. They were reall fall in love each other, and they were having a sex. Druing that, her brother came in again,and he was arrested by "rape". She wanted to explain that it was not, but she couldn't control her body and he put in the jail again. However, their love wouldn't stop in the jail. He kept writing the letter to her and call her as "My Princess".
I think that the movie of South Korea did not represent 'disabled person'. At the first time to watch this movie, my feeling was not easy.Because of " Disabled". I think that it is problem not only me but also others, too. The reason is that Korean didn't learn and experience about how to share culture with disabled people. Korean peopel usually thought that disabled people should be hide in the closet and they are not normal.Also, they always need to someone's help and made annoying to 'normal person. It is very dangerous thoughs.
In the movie, when they started to date,he was with her on her back and his the other hands hold her wheelchair. He tried to run for getting last subway in the midnight, but he missed it. At the moment, I was cry because I felt like I was just into her life. Although he was a criminal, he was aginst her disabled.
Especially, in the movie, when he tried to rape her when he saw her ,first time, it seemed to include some meaning of it what she had to be thankful to him for raping her. The reason is that she was a disabled woman.It is extreamly sad. Actually, my case, I always think about don't do think differently about disabled person as me. The truth is they are not different from me. However, my behavior is very different in real life. If I saw disabled person, I looked at him/her poorly and lower than me. I know it is huge problem on me , but it is result from education in South Korea. In South Korea , they are never mentioned about disabled people such as how to be act when we met them or how to think about their physical or mental condition. If I should have gotten appropriate education about disabled, I never avoid them and ignore them.
When I arrived in Seattle, I saw the many feature for concerning about disabled person such as transportation. I cannot imagine in South Korea. In the movie, he called her name as" princess",because she was real princess to him such as life saver. So far, I discriminated me and disabled person , but it is not different. They can love each other and dream about their positive future. During this class, my thought is getting different about racism and disabled what they are just different from me, not 'wrong'.
Picture from www.spacemovie.mur.at.